Whatever happened was just meant to be...

Let's let go of our grudges and forget the pain. What if we could just sit in the sunshine and be like old friends talking about our day.
Sometimes life gets complicated and misfortunes happen but so what?... we always get through them in the end.
It's nice to just sit and hear your laugh and the talk of your crazy theories that I can never comprehend...
It's just nice to be there... without the disagreement and tears. without pain and the fear...

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...”

perhaps some lessons are meant to be learnt the hard way. sometimes we must go through the trauma, experience the suffering and carry the burden of pain til we understand the meaning...

sometimes if i just stop the blaming and the missing does seem to stop. sometimes for a few days, sometimes longer, but it all gets better in time....